You seem concerned about people flaming the staff (i.e. you).
Perhaps the reason there are flames is because you do things such as close the asylum. People, when happy, are generally less inclined to seriously troll. Yes, there are occasional insults, but you need to take them as jests.
At least this thread shows that you've decided not to go full dictatorship on BF, which is a good thing. I personally don't think the asylum should close, but I'm all for giving Souless moderation there and seeing the results.