Tipsy said:
What I am saying is the concept of fidelity is between a married couple because fidelity basically means not committing adultery. And it is hard, if not impossible for a couple that isn't married to commit adultery. What I was saying is the word fidelity doesn't really fit with a couple unless they are married.
To me I don't see the reason for having this kind of casual sex, which to me is a meaningful show of love, but if you take out the love and the procreation, then personally I think it is wrong, coming from a Catholic view of couse, but then again, your probably not Catholic.
While I do know that our religion is against casual, recreational sex, how can it be wrong, as long if its done between two concentual adults ?
After all, maybe this kind of sex is frown upon in the same spirit that masturbation is...
And just to close that little part about me and religion you opened : while I was christened in a catholic churche, I didn't grow up to be a practicing believer. However, as you may have noticed trough my posts, I am not agaisnt our religion, the existence of God, and I do recognise its purpose and importance in our society.
Tipsy said:
The first time I read that I thought it said "If I sleep with another man" :loopy
Still, would it be the case, it wouldn't change anything on what we're discussing here, would it ? Unless, concerning the issue being discussed here, you have double standards on homosexual couples, in which case I'd like to hear about it.