Me personally I am an Alcoholic... Yet I hate and can't stand alcoholics. a "friend" of mine turned her life around and recently has been back sliding. But this weekend she basically she threw everything away.... I had to wash my hands of the situation and just give up. It's sad but sometimes there's just nothing more you can do to help someone who doesn't want help. This is a true story (odd for me on this forum). Agree with my logic? Should I keep trying to help?