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Yes, you are. Don't lie to yourself. Anyhoo, in those classes that you needed to "ace the tests" just to get a passing grade in, obviously you did that because your mind was set. I think that it's all in your head.
Yes, you are. Don't lie to yourself. Anyhoo, in those classes that you needed to "ace the tests" just to get a passing grade in, obviously you did that because your mind was set. I think that it's all in your head.
Lol...you're kind of an ass for telling me that i'm pathetic even though you have no idea who the hell kind of person I am. You're probably joking though, so meh.
Hmm... I feel the same way too, Namingway. I feel I want to do something, but then I don't do it. And then things get put off... But, I never consisdered myself moronic enough to comit suicide, not that your moronic ^_^. The thing is you have to go out, and have fun. I, myself, am VERY, VERY antisocial. And so shy it would make you sick. And I guess I let all that frustration out by being mean and nasty to everyone. But I don't know, something about people and their liking to be criticized... I have many friends, and I let loose around them, but when I see a new person, I try to swallow my pride and say hello, and maybe joke around. I'm really fun-loving. But my shell leads people to think the opposite. I think a way to help solve your problems is to attend to an activity you enjoy the most, whether it'd be helping someone, or just a way to have fun. because, thats all really anyone needs. Oh, and DarkMatter is right, try to get a nice girlfriend o_-...
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I'm not here to show how pathetic I am. I am NOT pathetic. I am NOT trying to convince everyone that my problems are worse than their problems. I'm posting this because maybe i'll get some good insights.
Edit: Thanks for the post Darkmatter.
Though my post was trying to get you to respond with something against getting a girlfriend, because there are many other ways of completing your goals, but that way was the first one I could think of. Kayle is right, doing something you love may also help you feel like you can do other things if you just put your mind to them.
Another way to get confidence and good belief in yourself that you ''can do this'' type of feeling is friends. My friends did the same thing for me, they were there for me and made sure I did the things I did to graduate high school, by helping me with my work and pushing me to get it done by the deadline that was given to me. I'm sure your friends can probably do the same for you. ^_^
It all depends on who you are, really. What makes you the happiest? I would pursue that and complete it, because if that single thing can make you happy, it's worth pursuing, right? Like a dream or a fantasy, a desire even. A desire to achieve goals for yourself and for the people who love you and believe in you is enough for me. Just think, that your loving family is proud of you, and that your friends are proud of you. Wouldn't achieving your goals and being a good person make them proud?
Lol...you're kind of an ass for telling me that i'm pathetic even though you have no idea who the hell kind of person I am. You're probably joking though, so meh.
No, I wasn't kidding. You obviously can do it, because you passed the classes. You're just too lazy to do something to change your life. Pathetic. Besides, I can only judge the type of person you are based on what you give me.
No, I wasn't kidding. You obviously can do it, because you passed the classes. You're just too lazy to do something to change your life. Pathetic. Besides, I can only judge the type of person you are based on what you give me.
Really, I don't really like saying this to people, but here it goes: sod off. If you don't think i've done anything to change my life reread my f*cking post. I've gotten a full time job and started to go backpacking every week or two with my friend since summer started. I have plenty of activities i'm doing. It's not that i'm not doing any activities, my problem is that after doing all that I don't feel any different. The goals I have problems with acheiving are goals in which the process to get there is boring. This is where ADD comes in, I can't really concentrate on something over extended periods of time if it isn't interesting. I don't have a problem with being interested in my job, I am in a busy grocery store and bag all day. That is pretty active. Same thing goes with backpacking, since I am always moving I enjoy it. I have problems when I try to sit down and attempt to manage my time. I know that is a necessary skill to have for academics, but since it isn't interesting to me I can't maintain that over the long run. There you go. I guess reading through my first post I can agree with you that it sounds pathetic in some parts. I still stick with what I said, i'm not pathetic. Only I decide if I am pathetic, so sod off if you think otherwise .
by the way: thanks to the guys that are being cool. the suggestions are appreciated.
On topic, depression at times can get the best of anyone. Once you've been pulled into it, you feel consumed, and it's hard to dig yourself out. I suffer from depression...to an extent. Not so much now..and in the past I've tried to keep it as secret as possible, because in reality, I didn't want to be judged over it. I'm some-what anti-social as well...but that usually comes with the package. Not with friends, but one-on-one with people that I'm not familiar with, I get paranoid and nervous. I hate even making phone calls to people I don't normally talk to.
Aside from that, depression can be cause from many things. Past experiences, your surroundings...parents, maybe just yourself.
If you're strong willed, you can get over it. The human mind is a very powerful tool, and can do nearly anything. The fact of the matter is, if you want to get over it..you can, and it's as simple as that. The sooner you see that, the better. You have it no worse than anyone else, and you can take control of your life..just like everyone else. However, it takes dedication and determination. Really, I think that many people stay depressed because it's what they know. Although it sucks, and it's hard to handle life living that way, it's familiar. Fear really stunts people from progressing and changing their lives. Plus there's the whole attention thing, and some people feed of that. Negative attention, yes...but it seems to fill an empty void for some. Not a good thing.
If you really want to change your ways...do it. In highschool, my first year, I didn't give a **** about grades or passing. Not because I was stupid, but because I didn't care...for various personal reasons. That year I did horrible...and got a handful of F's and D's. As time progressed, I realised that I was going no where..and that I probably wasn't going to be able to graduate on time. I got over myself, started working on school...and my grades improved greatly. A's and B's...and with some out-of-school projects, I caught myself up in credits and requirements.
So basically, stop telling yourself that being *whatever normal is to you* is too hard, and impossible. It's not. It's slightly out of reach..but once you get in touch with yourself and reality, you can do what you need to. Also, instead of sitting around depressed (if you ever do) take pride in something you're good at, and work with it. Whenever I get down or depressed, I turn my emotions into art (poetry, websites, ect..). Once I get started, it turns into a project, and shortly after I'm no longer worrying about trivial problems.
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College is coming up and I need to be motivated and all, but I am not. I don't really know what to do, I can't just be in this cycle the rest of my life. I don't really know how to take control and just do things. I'm not saying my life is bad or anything, I have a loving family and all. I just posted this because I really don't know what to do. I don't really care what people say here because i'm just posting this to a bunch of people on the internet who don't know me, but meh
If you aren't getting motivated for college then maybe you shouldn't go. Also, I thought you didn't care what anybody said here... Pathetic.
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