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Originally Posted by Namingway I'm not here to show how pathetic I am. I am NOT pathetic. I am NOT trying to convince everyone that my problems are worse than their problems. I'm posting this because maybe i'll get some good insights.
Edit: Thanks for the post Darkmatter. |
Though my post was trying to get you to respond with something against getting a girlfriend, because there are many other ways of completing your goals, but that way was the first one I could think of. Kayle is right, doing something you love may also help you feel like you can do other things if you just put your mind to them.
Another way to get confidence and good belief in yourself that you ''can do this'' type of feeling is friends. My friends did the same thing for me, they were there for me and made sure I did the things I did to graduate high school, by helping me with my work and pushing me to get it done by the deadline that was given to me. I'm sure your friends can probably do the same for you. ^_^
It all depends on who you are, really. What makes you the happiest? I would pursue that and complete it, because if that single thing can make you happy, it's worth pursuing, right? Like a dream or a fantasy, a desire even. A desire to achieve goals for yourself and for the people who love you and believe in you is enough for me. Just think, that your loving family is proud of you, and that your friends are proud of you. Wouldn't achieving your goals and being a good person make them proud?
